You already know what everyone else thinks you should do.
You could recite what his attorney said. What the mediator suggested. What your sister thinks about the house.
But when someone asks what you want, there is a pause. Not because you do not know. Because nobody has asked in a very long time.
Three days. Real numbers, real language, and a room where nobody talks over you. Come expecting to leave knowing something you did not know when you walked in.
What you get
Three live sessions with me
Taught live on Zoom, not pre-recorded. Cameras on, questions welcome. You are in the room, not watching a room.
The workbook and templates
Your document checklist and the question scripts you can take straight into your next attorney meeting.
Live Q&A
Time to ask about your situation and get a real answer from someone who is not neutral.
Yes, for 48 hours.
Each session is posted after it ends and comes down 48 hours later. Come live if you can. The room is where the work happens, and the replay cannot ask you a question back.
What you walk away with
A 30 page workbook arrives before Day 1. You bring it to all three days and fill it in as we go, so what you leave with is not notes about a workshop, it is a document you can put in front of your attorney.
The Monthly Expense Worksheet
Twelve categories, with what you pay now and what that same line will cost in the household you are building, side by side. The difference between those two columns is where the conversation about support actually lives.
Your four cashflow numbers
Current, projected on your income alone, and projected at the high and low end of support.
Your Peace, Ease and Joy line
The one expense that keeps you steady, funded first instead of cut first.
A short verify list
Usually five lines, not fifty. Only the numbers that would change your answer. Plus twelve AI prompts, one per category, for building an estimate for anything you have never paid yourself.
Who you'll be in the room with
Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA® is a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, a Certified Divorce Advocate, and the founder of the Women's Financial Wellness Center.
She has spent her career on one side of the table, helping women see the truth about their own money and say what they need out loud.
She is not neutral in this work, and she will tell you why.
Choose your hard.
It is going to be hard no matter what, but it will all be worth it in the end.
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